I just went through it again! Another possibility of a relationship squandered! I'm getting a little tired of this. I think I'm a REAL catch, sounds conceited but I think it's true. I'm tall, moderately good looking, caring, smart, funny (at least in my mind...haha), and charming. Not to mention, educated (hence smart), have a good job, own my own car, working towards buying a house, and actually WANT to settle down and start a family! Isn't that supposed to be a "panty dropper"?!?! A guy willing to be serious and NOT a player? So what is it?? What am I doing wrong?! It's not like I'm proposing to these girls on the first date! I'm not looking for comments but more of venting. If you'd like to comment please do. Any advice in my book is welcome. Thanks

NO ladies I'm not saying all men aren't book smart or have no common sense. I'm telling you that men don't over analyze like you do. Men take what you say at face value. If you tell him nothing is wrong, we take it as nothing is wrong. If want your man to comfort you when you're sad or kiss you when you're not feelings sexy, then tell him! Oh and this excuse that he should know what's wrong is a load of bs. Even if he makes you angry from 2 days ago, he's not gonna know why you're upset. Relationships only survive with communication. If you sad, say you're sad and say why....even if he made you that way! I say this because most men don't know how to express themselves to tell you this. Trust me, men want to know if we did something wrong....it's the fixer in us to make it better.

 

p.s. comments are always welcome....thanks

It's been awhile since I've ranted about something so here it goes....I would like to address a problem we're having in this society, jaded women. I've met and conversed with many women that would rather be single because they are afraid of getting hurt again. I understand SOME men are immature and wouldn't appreciate what they had to save their life, but I promise all you women out there, there are good men out there. The reason I know this is because I am one. I'm not just saying that, I was raised to be respectful to women and to treat my woman like a queen. It bothers me greatly that men these days have lost that ability to show emotion or even make a woman feel like a woman. Yes I said it, it's a man's job to make a woman feel like a woman, just as it's a woman's job to make a man feel like a man. So for you women out there that are jaded because of immature men, try letting a nice guy take you out. The least you'll get out of it is a free date because a true gentleman NEVER lets a woman pay. Hope this helps some of you out there.

You know you're from Chicago if...

You know what the phone number for Empire Carpet is!

Your living room is called the "front room."

You don't pronounce the "s" at the end of Illinois, and you become irrated at people who do.

You measure distance in minutes (especially "from the city"), and everything is pretty much 15 minutes away. (except in traffic)

You have no problem spelling or pronouncing "Des Plaines."

You still consider the sears tower the tallest building in the world.

You know where Comiskey Park is.

Your school classes were canceled because of the cold weather.

Your school classes were canceled because of the hot weather.

You've switched from heat to air conditioning in the same day.

Your grocery stores don't have sacks; they have bags.

You end your sentences with prepositions: "Where's my coat at?" or "If you go to the mall, I wanna go with," or "Come by and pick me up."

You know that cheese head is a synonym for someone that lives in wisconsin

Your idea of a great sandwich is when the meat is twice as big as the bun, it has everything on it, and a slice of dill pickle is on the side.

You know what a "pizza puff" is.

You know what a "gyros" is.

You always carry jumper cables in your car.

You drink "pop,"  not soda or coke.

You understand that I-290, I-90, I-94, and I-294 are all different highways.

You know the names of the interstates: Stevenson, Kennedy, Eisenhower, Dan Ryan, Ronald Reagan and the Edens, but you call them all "expressways."

You refer to anything south of I-80 as "Southern Illinois."

You refer to Lake Michigan as "The Lake."

You refer to Chicago as "The City."

No matter where you are, when you hear the term "Downtown," you immediately assume they're talking about downtown Chicago.

You have two favorite football teams: The Bears, and anyone who beats the Packers!

You read "The Trib."

You think 35 degrees is great weather to wash your car!

You know what Chicago Style Pizza REALLY is, and it ain't at the Uno's Pizzerias outside of Chicago. (trust me on this)

You know why they call Chicago "The Windy City."

You understand what "lake-effect" means.

You know the difference between Amtrak and Metra, and know which station they end up at. (Do note the preposition.)

You can distinguish among the following area codes: 847, 630, 773,708, 312, & 815.

You wear gym shoes, not sneakers.

You have at some time in your life, used your furniture to guard your parking spot in winter. (haha)

You pronounce "on" as "ahn" and not "awn".

You play softball with the biggest ball imaginable that doesn't fit into a mitt, which everyone else strangely calls a "glove".

You know why O'Hare Airport's abbreviation is ORD.

To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait."
To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town (or across the state line) to see her.
To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her.
To every guy that she cried in front of.
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.
To every guy that would give his seat up.
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy, even if you are not with her.

...This one bulletin is for you...

Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...

I guarantee 90% of the men on your page will not repost this cuz they care more about their image.

If you are a nice guy repost this with "Nice guys STILL finish last."

If you are a girl that thinks every guy should treat a girl this way repost this with: "To Every Guy.."